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Question #1:

Okay, this girl is reaaaly confusing me )): help?

Okay so I'll just give the cliff notes of how all this went down. Oh and don't let how it may sound fool you because it wasn'tas smooth sailing as you might think. and if you're asking, yes I did feel that sense of "I'm an idiot" while writing this.

-Met this girl by getting her number and talking to her for a looong time

- I'm not sure if she expected more cuz I'm not the best looking guy out there but far from de worst. anyway she still giggled and smiled when she saw me.

-Thanks to a bet we had, She took off her panties before we walked into the theater and I finger f**ked her during the movie...but she's bisexual.

-I did it again while we were in the booth at bubba gump restaurant(I was so shameless back then)

-A few days later I called her asking if she really had any feelings for me and we had a heart to heart and she SAID that she didn't but there's more to it.

- We ended up going to prom together and first thing we did was find a private place then made out(for about ten seconds then my gym teacher caught us)

-she sat on my lap and(stupid me) asked if she liked me. but she sat on my lap and said "i like you" in the sweetest voice.

- well the date ended and i had my arm wrapped around her the ride home ( She asked "why are you so warm" in the ride before we got to the dance and snuggled with me then)

-after wards we hadn't really talked in a while. I mean when we first met we'd talk all the time(I mean literally going whole nights w/o sleep) but then and lately we don't really talk at all.

-next came the summer and my 18th birthday where we spent the whole day at six flags. She lifted up her shirt enough to show off her tummy but wasn't so into me hugging her and such. when I asked her about it, she said she doesn't like PDA with guys. and I quote "if you were a hot girl then I'd not mind"

-but I managed to walk around till we found a private place in the park then(stupid me again) asked if I could kiss her. needless to say it was kind of awkward and lasted about 3 seconds. But here's the funny thing. on the way back home we sat in the very back(we were being driven, I don't have a car) and at first she swore that I wouldn't get to touch her down there and that I'd be lucky to get to feel her boobs. Well when we were in the car I was sorta acting like a little puppy pawing at her for a feel( I was such a...dumb ass!)

-she insisted on no and I gave up then tried to talk about other things. About five minutes into this new conversation she said I was allowed to feel anywhere above the waist. I didn't hesitate and immediately went to work. at this point I finally grew a pair and decided to try something I thought was tactful. I massaged her breasts and nipples with moves I saw in a porno. and then I started testing the waters by occasionally and more frequently moving them downstairs. she was giving me that "hey" look but I told her "I'm not going below the belt" with a new found confidence :D

- Eventually she let me go downstairs but with only about five minutes left before she got home..she didn't "get home"

Well anyway recently it's gone back to the not talking on the phone and since she lives far away and I STILL don't have a car plus i'm in college, I don't see much more of a chance coming for us to really do anything. I do have one last chance. our family does a show for thanksgiving where we get to do a song and dance and she's coming. do you think I have a shot or do the clues tell me I should give up?(Oh..one more hint. even though she says she prefer girls and has even been in a hotel room with a cute one on a school trip, she doesn't let them touch her down there, or so she says_o)
Oh , and if you're wondering why this is in the LGBT category...I always feel like you guys know something I don't. Get really insightful answers here.

Question #2:

What do you think of the first paragraph of my new novel?

(changed a few things)
Sorry about the format of the paragraph. It's just that I'm still not sure how to "technically" integrate dialogue. Capitalized words mean they were suppose to be in italics. Oh and I know I talk a lot in slang, but that's how I intend my novel to be.
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I had just walked a few blocks from my house when a cop pulled me over. Well not technically "pulled me over", but yea, he stopped me.
"Hey kid what's your name?".
I just said the first name that came to my mind.
"Lawrence".
LAWRENCE, I thought, oh my God.
He turned his car off, and said "What's the backpack for?".
I had completely forgotten I even had that with me. The bad thing is I was holding it like grocery bag, which made me look suspicious, instead of wearing it like a backpack.
"It's for school and stuff, you know?".
He took his stunner shades off, looked me right in the eye and said "Oh yea? Woll what school ya got on a Saturday?"
There was nothing I could say to that. I stared at him for like two seconds without a reply. He probably knew who I was, and was just trying to see if I'd give in. HelI no, I wasn't gonna give in.

Right when he pulled the handle to open his door, I shot off like my mother was dying. He came after me for like only a few steps and then ran back to his car-- probably to call back up and tell'em he'd found Jerry Gons. And it's a good thing he ran back too, 'cus I tire out fast while running. I mean, I'm a lightning fast starter but I can't keep the pace.
I ran 'till I saw somewhere I could hide and they wouldn't expect it...(to be continued)
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thanks, be rude, be nice, be HONEST

Question #3:

Does my opening paragraph make you wanna keep reading?

Sorry about the format of the paragraph. It's just that I'm still not sure how to "technically" integrate dialogue. Capitalized words mean they were suppose to be in italics. Oh and I know I talk a lot in slang, but that's how I intend my novel to be.
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I had just walked a few blocks from my house when a cop pulled me over. Well not technically "pulled me over", but yea, he stopped me.
"Hey kid what's your name?".
I just said the first name that came to my mind.
"Lawrence".
LAWRENCE, I thought, oh my God.
He turned his car off, and said "What's the backpack for?".
I had completely forgotten I even had that with me. The bad thing is I was holding it like grocery bag, which made me look suspicious, instead of wearing it like a backpack.
"It's for school and stuff, you know?".
He took his stunner shades off, looked me right in the eye and said "Oh yea? Woll what school ya got on a Saturday?"
There was nothing I could say to that. I stared at him for like two seconds without a reply. He probably knew who I was, and was just trying to see if I'd give in. HelI no, I wasn't gonna give in.

Right when he pulled the handle to open his door, I shot off like my mother was dying. He came after me for like only a few steps and then ran back to his car-- probably to call back up and tell'em he'd found Jerry Gons. And it's a good thing he ran back too, 'cus I tire out fast while running. I mean, I'm a lightning fast starter but I can't keep the pace.
I ran 'till I saw somewhere I could hide and they wouldn't expect it...(to be continued)
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thanks, be rude, be nice, be HONEST

Question #4:

Need help with narrative essay :(?

Hi, okay so I'm in high school and i need help with my narrative essay. I want to write it on the first time i went driving. (Basically i went in the car with my father and then he forgot something so he ran back into the house and i decided to start driving anyway and i hit a pole which made a dent in the car -stupid move i know lol) But the problem is i have no idea how to start off :/ writing is really not my thing...so if you could please help me and tell me how to start off it would be very much appreciated!!! i've been sitting in front of a blank paper for hours...

--thnx, joy :)

Question #5:

What do you think of my narrative writing?

I have a narrative paragraph that I need some constructive criticism on, also pointing out any grammatical errors would be great!

I walk into Wegmans nervous and anxious of what is to come. While sitting down on a bench a million questions run through my mind as I try to decipher what I will be asked during my first job interview. Although an interview for a minimum wage job seems mundane, in my head I make it a life or death situation. Thoughts of failing to get the job, and consequently not being able to buy my first car scare me. But as I look up I breathe a sigh of relief; a blonde haired women in her late 20’s comes directly towards me. She greets me and happily tells me that she will be interviewing me today. This is fantastic compared to the grumpy old man that I had pictured. We walk together into a small office where interviews take place. As the questions are being asked I realize that that I am well prepared. A burden lifts of my shoulders because I am confident I will be able to answer all the questions satisfactorily. When the interview ends I am excited as I am positive that I did well. Though while walking away I realize I made too big of a deal out of a simple task. For now on as long as I’m prepared, there is no reason to be nervous.

Thanks in advance!

Question #6:

We had sex, but I still want to see him?

I've known this guy since I was 16 working at a restaurant. I'm now 19. He's always been very nice to me and we have always randomly run into each other, all times he always seemed happy to see me. I'm not entirely sure of his age, but I know he was between 21 to 23 when I was 16. Recently, we ran into each other at a party, and not long after he gave my friend his phone number to give to me. We stated texting each other a lot, and we hung out once and had a great time.

Well...the other day, only the second time of us hanging out...we made dinner and cookies together, watched a movie, had a good night...and he offered that I could stay the night if I wanted too, in fact he even offered the spare bedroom or his bedroom, whichever I was more comfortable with...I decided to stay, and in his bedroom. At first we just cuddled, and he massaged my shoulders a little and we slept for some time...then we woke up for whatever reason, and we kissed...the kissing lead to sex...and in the morning, after I got up and got ready for work, he told me to give him a call after I got off...it sounded like he wanted me to come back over...but my car ended up dying and getting stuck at his place, and seeing as he recently lost his car, I had a friend come pick me up and haven't seen him since.

Before I left we talked a little...he asked if what happened was ok...I said that it happened, so there was no point in it not being ok, I was fine with it...I asked him if sex had been his intention for me, he said no...he asked if sex had been MY intention for HIM, I said no...I told him, "when it was about to happen, I figured, 'well, why not. If he doesn't call me again, he's a dick and I wouldn't want him anyway, right?' " He seemed a bit flabbergasted at that, lol...

We've texted each other since, mostly just talking about my car...he said he was going to walk up to the parts store, and I told him that if I could my car running I would drive him...he said that would be great, "and the extra perk is that we could hang out together a bit". I'm hoping that's a good sign, that he is still interested in seeing me...I'm trying hard to let him know I am still interested in him, as well, that he wasn't a one night stand to me. I know now that I need to be the one to approach him on the subject, but I'm trying to decide how.

I'm thinking something like this...I will be honest with him, tell him "I was thinking about the other night when we had sex, and when you asked if it was ok, I feel like I gave you a cold response. I hope you didn't think I was upset at you, I've just never had sex with a person I wasn't involved with, I wasn't quite sure how to feel about it. You're a great guy, though, and I would love to start spending more of my time with you, if that's ok with you."

What do you think??
@livin life : as stated in the post...I have never done this before...I've only had sex with two other men, both of whom I was already in very committed relationships with...I took a peek at your profile, looks like you just like to give mean answers. Congrats, you bruised me. As though it wasn't driving me crazy enough all ready.

Question #7:

We had sex, but how do I tell him I still want to see him?

Question #8:

Riverfront State Prison, Camden N.J.; where did it go...and where did the prisoners eventually end up?

Spent a fortnight visiting daughter who lives across the Delaware in Phila., and the first time I did the tourist walk through the city in 2004, and across the Ben Franklin Bridge (with binoculars and camera) saw the jail for the first time, with the watchtowers and fences - and the cons having their exercise period. The six visits after, just rented cars, and travelled north to Boston, and south to Washington. This time, however, thought I'd just use my feet, and act almost like it was the first time...and after spending the morning in the excellent Reading Market, with the Amish traders, made my way to Camden...which seemed like there was hardly a person living there on my last visit. Made my way across the bridge - but the jail was nowhere to be seen.
Myra tells me it was knocked down to revitalizing Camden's long decaying waterfront and it's surrounding areas - and have it look as attractive and pretty as the larger city (in another state) at the other side of the Delaware. Is that so?

Question #9:

really stupid situation, but?

I went out with my friend's to a club saturday gone (which my bf doesn't like me doing) and when i came home ,which was about 4ish, i logged on to facebook and my bf had sent me a msg saying ''well did you go out?''. I was drunk so rightly so it took me a while to write a msg that made sense and telling him yes i did and where i went ect;. B4 i sent the msg i got another one from him saying ''cant be bothered waiting on your reply, i might ring you during the week, good luck''. So then i sent him a msg saying ''oh that's so childish, grow up'', to which he never replied. So i ended up falling asleep. When i woke up the next morn i checked my msg on fb and he had sent me one saying ''i don't care what you think piss off, and your friends with my enemies ant way''. Aka a bar in my town that set up a page on fb requested me as a friend and i accepted and my bf is barred from the bar. So i got up and got and got a taxi out to his house to sort it out even though he was in the wrong. Anyway got out there got things sorted and it was fine. I ended up staying the night in his and fell asleep. I woke up about 5ish needing to go to the bathroom and he was still awake he hadn't slept all night yet. So i said to him now your going to be asleep all day tmrw and ill be awake all day in your house with your parents downstairs and i would of been in the room doing nothing bored stiff, so id have to leave and spend another ten euro on a taxi back home! Then he said ill drop you home now if you want to shut you up moaning. I got thick it was 5 in the morning and all i wanted to do was sleep. So he dropped me home and we were rowing in the car on the way back to my house, with him saying i wasn't expecting you out so i wasn't planning on sleeping in a normal pattern, and i was saying well you could of said so b4 i went to sleep and not be saying it too me at 5 in the morning when im half asleep. lol,,,i know its messed up and completely childish, but neither of us has spoke to each other in the last two day's it's like were playing the waiting game on who should txt who first. Im willing to accept i was prob in the wrong for moaning about the taxi fare home but i was half asleep and grumpy, but im been stubborn and not msging him because when he was in the wrong only hours b4 he hadn't apologized and it was me that went out to him to make up. So what do yous think?...lol...who should txt who first?.
sorry maybe i didnt make it clear but when im saying he does'nt like it yes it's because he does'nt trust me! even though ive never cheated, he goes out with his own friends wenever he wants and he has cheated, it's all about control for him, so for the top half of the question you have misunderstood, plus im not some child going out and getting hammered im 27!!

Question #10:

We had sex...any chance he'll still like me?

I've known this guy since I was 16 working at a restaurant. I'm now 19. He's always been very nice to me and we have always randomly run into each other, all times he always seemed happy to see me. I'm not entirely sure of his age, but I know he was between 21 to 23 when I was 16. Recently, we ran into each other at a party, and not long after he gave my friend his phone number to give to me. We stated texting each other a lot, and we hung out once and had a great time...well...the other day, only the second time of us hanging out...we made dinner and cookies together, watched a movie, had a good night...and he offered that I could stay the night if I wanted too, in fact he even offered the spare bedroom or his bedroom, whichever I was more comfortable with...I decided to stay, and in his bedroom. At first we just cuddled, and he massaged my shoulders a little and we slept for some time...then we woke up for whatever reason, and we kissed...the kissing lead to sex...and in the morning, after I got up and got ready for work, he told me to give him a call after I got off...it sounded like he wanted me to come back over...but my car ended up dying and getting stuck at his place, and seeing as he recently lost his car, I had a friend come pick me up and haven't seen him since. Before I left we talked a little...he asked if what happened was ok...I said that it happened, so there was no point in it not being ok, I was fine with it...I asked him if sex had been his intention for me, he said no...he asked if sex had been MY intention for HIM, I said no...I told him, "when it was about to happen, I figured, 'well, why not. If he doesn't call me again, he's a dick and I wouldn't want him anyway, right?' " He seemed a bit flabbergasted at that...lol...well...that was all yesterday...we've texted each other today, mostly just talking about my car...he said he was going to walk up to the parts store, and I told him that if I could my car running I would drive him...he said that would be great, "and the extra perk is that we could hang out together a bit". I'm hoping that's a good sign, that he is still interested in seeing me...I'm trying hard to let him know I am still interested in him, as well, that he wasn't a one night stand to me...but...I don't know...should I approach him on the "I want to see you again" subject, or do I wait for him?

Question #11:

Really need advice. Does he like me or still trying to use me (long)?

We were together for 2 years. We broke up in decemeber of 2008. He neglected me and knew I deserved better. I wanted to keep trying, but he thought it was for the best. We continued to have sex after we broke up. He knew id do it. I did it cuz I still wanted to be with him and thought if I gave him what he wanted, he would give me what I wanted. of course I was wrong and stupid. But part of me thought he still liked me b/c he would invite me over for dinner and family trips, and it took him 5 months to tell them we werent together anymore. He dated...so did I. And we both got in serious relationships...one I think he is still in. Well last sept he invited me to watch his band play.I dropped by his house to pick up the tickets. I was just gonna give him the money and go pretty much. He wouldnt let me. He asked if I would turn off my car and get out and talk for a bit. I did. He looked sad/awkward. He didnt really know how to act around me. This was the first time we were together and couldnt touch or kiss or anything. He gave me a big hug before I left. The next night I went to his show. His gf wasnt there. and he was wearing a shirt that I got him...it was one of his favorites. when they finished playing, I went over and said hi, then left... My best friend was with me and she said he was soooooo disappointed that I left so soon. She said she could see it in his face/eyes. She said he clearly still liked me b/c of that and the fact that he wore that shirt considering he has a million other ones he could have wore. At first i tried not to think too much into it b/c I really wanted to be done with him, and just got tired of caring. The next day I did feel bad, and text him saying congrats once again. He responded saying that he wished I could have stayed longer. that was really the last time I saw him. We have talked since then maybe 3 times over IM. He offered to help me with one of my classes I was having trouble with...but I said no. He also invited me over for a christmas party his family had...I made up some excuse not to go. Up until that point things were ok and civil between us. Then in march we were talking and he kept asking me questions about my bf (how old, what school, interest etc) he was asking real questions. So that made any belief that he still liked me go away...b/c i feel that If you like someone then you wont ask about their relationship cuz you wouldnt want to hear about their happiness with other ppl. Like me for example. He has been with his gf for about a year...and NEVER have I asked him about her. Not even as simple as whats her name. b/c I still had feelings for him and I dont want to hear about that crap. Well my best friend thinks opposite. She thinks the fact that he ask does show he still likes me.( She says this b/c she ask about the guys gf that she likes b/c she wants to know more about her and see what shes up against). Im still not convinced of that theory. But anyway, when he would ask about my bf he would make some rude comments toward him and our relationship and that completely disgusted me. I was from that point mad at him and decided it was best that I cut him out of my life. We didn't talk since. Well back in june I ran into him while out with friends. He came over and gave me a hug and we chatted. He asked if my bf was there...He wasnt. he suggested I call him so we could hang out. I never did. Well, I really didnt want to be around him so me and my friends split. As I was leaving he asked if I was leaving and I said yes...again he got a disappointed look. I felt bad, but I just cant be around him...he makes me weak. So what do you think? does he just want to continue to use me, or could he possibly still like me a little?

Question #12:

Does he like me for real?? help please?

So theres this guy that i kinda know.......he's constantly stares at me when im around him, and when i first enter his company he looks really nervous and fidgety.

My dad, brother, and sis the other day were out shopping and he passed them, did a full turn and looked straight at my brother and around him.My brother said it looked like he was searching for me.

He kept mocking one of his team mates about a trick he couldn't do in football for a half an hour, when i said it was hard, he sad ' yup i suppose its hard alright'.

I was staring at this guy behind him for a few seconds to see what he would do and he fully turned around to see what i was staring at, and then realized half way through it that he made it obvious.

When i was getting into my friends car to go home, he got outside the house and was searching for someone because his head was going all over the place, and there was crowds of people around

Question #13:

First chapter of my story- what do you think?

My first attempt at a horror story line. What do you think to the first chapter? Is it...trying too hard if you get what I mean? Put what you think of it- good or bad. Thanks.

I awoke with a start to the blare of sunlight shining through the window. As I looked around the room, I felt no familiarity, no comfort in the beautifully furnished room.
Something was wrong.
Slowly, I pulled the quilt off my legs and tip-toed towards the window bare foot. My bones grated against each other as I moved and my skin was stinging like I had sunburn. Tentatively, I peered out of the glass. Outside, a row of pale coloured houses were lined up along a long street. It would have seemed pretty, although the houses had an emptiness that made the windows look like dark gaping eyes of a skull. The street was deserted. No people, no cars, no noise. ‘Where am I?” I thought as I pulled my eyes away from the window feeling confused. I gasped. ‘Who am I?’ My heart thudded as I tried to remember my name...
Nothing. My mind drew a blank. I put my back against the wall; slowly sitting to the floor with my head in my hands. ‘Age?’ Nothing. ‘Parents?’ Another blank. ‘Family? Friends?’ I cried out in despair. It was as though my memories had been scooped right out of my brain. Shaking my head I rose to my feet slowly and walked over to the long mirror hanging beside an antique looking chest of drawers. The person looking back was a girl around eighteen. She had pretty features and the girl was petite looking. Her hair was a honey blonde which fell in gentle waves to her shoulders. Her eyes were a warm hazel which complimented her olive skin. The girl was wearing a pretty green, strapless dress which came to her knees and complimented her slender figure.
She was pretty. Beautiful even, however she was tainted by the thin scars running up her arms and throat; twisting and criss-crossing over one another like vicious snakes. Her cheek was bruised with three long gashes in her flesh. The girl’s eyes, bloodshot as if she’d gotten soap in them, were wide with horror and strands of her golden hair were clinging to her sweating forehead.
I backed away from the mirror. Shocked from the hideous mutilations and crazed look I wore on my face- terrified that I hadn’t even recognised my own appearance. My stomach churned and my head throbbed. Tears were trickling down my face. Without thinking, I was running out of the house. The sun stung my eyes when I ran out of the front door onto the street, but I carried on running down the street. The concrete was rough and hot on my bare feet, although I barely noticed. Houses whizzed by: all the same, always as empty as the last. Anger coursed through me, urging me on as I tried to find the end of the ghost town. Eventually, my sides began to throb and I slowed to a walk. The air was humid and the sun scorched my back as I walked, blinded by hot tears. I wiped them away with the back of my scarred hand. Deciding to get out of the sun and think, I looked around for shade. The only place was the houses; however I was reluctant to go into them. They still had an eerie presence. With a sigh, I carry on roaming the streets.

I heard the scream five minutes later. I froze in the middle of the street. The scream echoed around the houses again. This time I ran towards it. I wasn’t alone- there was someone else! The thought of not being alone sent a rush of adrenaline through me and I turned the corner.
I skidded to a halt. There was a young girl about twelve running down the road with her red hair flapping wildly around her face which had an expression of pure terror. She glanced over her shoulder and screamed again, however I couldn’t move. Behind the little girl were three tall men quickly catching up to her. The men were blood red, their eyes as black as coal and their fingers had long claws reaching out for the girl. And they were chasing her on long, black spider’s legs which protruded grotesquely from the spider’s body that started was below the men’s rib cages. My body shook with fear.
Another one of the mutants suddenly leapt from out of a window- the glass shattering to the ground below. The thing landed on the girl who screamed in terror. It lifted her to her feet with a sick smile. The other mutants swarmed around them hissing.
“Please,” I heard the girl say; her voice trembled. The creature put it’s face close to the girl and ran a long black tongue up her cheek. The other three mutants hissed and barked laughs which made my skin crawl. Then, slowly raising it’s clawed hand, the creature brought it’s hand down to the girl. With that one swift movement, it sliced open her stomach. Blood and the girl’s insides trickled and fell out of her body. The girl screamed in agony, collapsing to the floor. I screamed in terror. One of the creatures turned and saw me. A smile slowly appeared on it’s face, revealing a set of sharp yellow teeth. It hissed.
I turned and I ran for my life.
Any constructive criticism would be appreciated :)
x

Question #14:

Does my guy friend have feelings for me? heeeeelp?

Question #15:

Does he like me?? Everyone help please?

Question #16:

Everyone answer this please?? Thanks?

Question #17:

I'm looking into a car I found on craigslist. Can you tell me if this email sounds fishy?

Here it is:

First of all I want to tell you that I am not selling this car for profit or due a lack of money. All I can say is that some recent events in my life made me change my perception of certain things, things that I’ve considered important in the past. I will donate all money to charity after I sell this car. I am currently on a trip for UNICEF.

The car has a clear title, is in an excellent condition, no dents or scratches, it was always garaged and regular maintenance and oil changes were done in time. Hasn’t been involved in an accident or flood damage. The motor runs very well. I don’t want to offend you but the car is priced for a fast sale so please if you intend to apply for a loan or financing do not reply.

The transaction will be made through eBay company for the safety of both. I’ve already included the car into eBay Vehicle Purchase Protection, so I will sell only through this.

If you want to buy the car, and you agree with my terms please reply so I can give you a detailed description of the eBay Vehicle Purchase Protection.

Does the ebay part sound weird to you? Thanks :)

Question #18:

Don't want my BF Brother near my child?

My Boyfriends older brother has been a dick to me since day 1 of our Relationship. First it was my age i'm 30 & he is 22. Then we got engaged after 2 months which was after a big car crash which we both escaped unhurt thankfully. We both realised we never want to be apart. We are together 3 years now and his brother always has something to say. I'm also 4 months pregnant with my first child. This is our 4th pregnancy (1 ectopic pregnancy & 2 Miscarriages). This guy is so childish he's even resorted to threatening me because my boyfriend took his GF off facebook as a friend apparantly thinking i made him do so. We have had confrontations which haven't been too nice so i have stopped visiting my future in-laws because of this, every time i visit he has a tantrum and starts to abuse me. It's got to the stage were i have had panic attacks and i am worried about how things are going to be when i have my baby. I know he's my BF brother but I hate this guy so much he's made my life a living hell and don't want him near my child. He threatens me then texts my boyfriend after & is all nice. I think it's a bit f****** up.This is a guy who smokes , drinks & never works. I have considered giving up my relationship because of this but why should i ruin my happiness i love my boyfriend so much. Somebody please give me advice i told my mother i don't want my child subjected to that kind of behaviour and have said to my boyfriend that his parent's can come see the child at our house. My job as a mother is to protect my child is it not?? I have considered going to a solicitor also to get a letter sent to him for slander
His parents are fine with me. I've been nothing but nice to this guy even when he knocks me down i even sent a present for his GF for her 21st bday my boyfriend got a message to say thanks for the present and an invite to the party just for him. The parent don't do anything i think they are afraid of his brother. My boyfriend has done things and even went to hit him but nuthin works with this loser. You'd think if he's my BF brother he would be happy for him no matter what

Question #19:

Trouble with my bro-in-law...?

My husband is 30 and his youngest brother is 25. He's got two sisters in between as well, but the 25yr-old is the youngest of the lot. My bro-in-law has apparently always got his way, even from being a kid. The other kids had to clear their own plates away after meals, but he was always the exception for some reason. He's been really nice up until now, but things are starting to change a bit...

My hubby and I live in a different country from them, but due to his culture, he still feels very attached to his siblings and wants to be there for them cos he's the eldest. He's helped in financing all their studies and is always there to answer any questions. He promised his youngest brother that he and his Dad will club together to get him a car if he works hard and gains entry to postgrad study. My bro-in-law agreed to pay a share towards the car himself as well, and it was all fine.

However, some family problems have come up since then which have made them think twice about this car - my bro-in-law can't even drive yet, and hubby and my FIL think they should wait to see if the current problems get resolved before they go spending what is a LOT of money to them on some luxury like a car. My hubby told my bro-in-law this recently, but he said he doesn't seem to get why they shouldn't just go ahead and buy it anyway. His attitude was one of not caring about the problems as long as he got his car.

Now hubby is changing his mind a bit about his brother...he said he was really cute and loveable as a kid, but now he is becoming a bit demanding and not understanding.

I think it's perfectly reasonable for hubby and my FIL to ask my bro-in-law to wait a while for this car, especially since the family is having financial problems. I think he's lucky that his Dad and elder brother are even contributing money to this car in the first place!

What do you think? I know hubby and my FIL promised the kid at first, but very serious problems have happened since then which have changed things a lot, so they can't be expected to fulfil what they said as well as solving everything that went wrong. I really think that bro-in-law will accuse hubby of not caring about him if this car doesn't materialise, and that will p*** me off so much I think I'll go crazy...he cares more than any adult brother I've ever known!

My policy thus far has been to stay well in the background, and stay silent. Is this where you think I should stay from now on, too, even though I'm really angry at some of the ignorance here?

Question #20:

Possible Knee Sprain? NEED HELP PLEASE!!!?

Okay...about a week and/or week and a half ago i was running down hill with my cousin...and i felt some pain in my knee when we were running to our car but i ignored it... the second day the pain still didn't go away and still ignored it, but then it hurt when i went up and down the stairs on my left knee...where i think the sprain is...and i can run...but i limp and it really hurts. We went swimming and it hurt for a while but it went away..but when i got out the water i could barely support myself to get up out of the pool but enough that i didn't need any help. What should i do? I have 5 days til my first day of school and i'm going to seventh grade so it's my first time walking to class, and then the next day i have P.E.!!!!! Please help me... and i know that i might have done somethings to worsen it. I remember my mom made me run to get the mail i mean MADE me run when my knee was almost good...what do i do??? Please...help me

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